Mark Harmon, the beloved face of NCIS for nearly two decades, is not just admired for his work as Leroy Jethro Gibbs—he’s also respected for his enduring marriage to actress Pam Dawber. The two met in the mid-1980s, and unlike many celebrity couples, they chose to keep their romance away from the spotlight. Their wedding was a small, private affair, setting the tone for the quiet and grounded life they’ve built together.

Over the years, Harmon and Dawber have become a rare example of stability in the unpredictable world of Hollywood. While Harmon dedicated himself to NCIS, Dawber stepped away from the spotlight to focus on their family. Their relationship has always been rooted in respect, shared values, and a mutual decision to prioritize their personal lives over fame.

Off-screen, Harmon’s marriage is a stark contrast to his character Gibbs’ tragic love story. In NCIS, Gibbs’ life was marked by loss and grief, while in real life, Harmon has enjoyed decades of love and partnership. Together, he and Pam have raised two sons, choosing to protect their privacy while quietly becoming one of Hollywood’s most admired couples.